I probably don’t have to tell you this, since Wal-Mart and almost every other store are playing holiday music already:  The holidays are coming soon!!

As I write this blog on what I’ve learned as an expert on “things,” I realize that these last two thoughts, promised to you last week, will revolutionize how you view this year’s holidays.  They’ll probably also save you money and frustration when holiday shopping time comes.  Please consider the following observations from this expert in “things:”

3.  It’s what you do with what you have that really counts, not what you possess.  In these tough economic times, it’s important to remember there are others dealing with greater difficulties than you.  Even while we tighten our purse strings, we can still give in many ways that others would be so grateful for.

• Give of yourself.
• Go visit someone you have been meaning to see for a long time.
• Write that letter.
• Bake those cookies.
• Volunteer for those needing help.
• Visit those confined to home by infirmity or sickness.
• Surprise a loved one.
• Make that phone call to make amends with one you haven’t spoken to for years.
• Bring your children to an assisted living or nursing home; watch the residents light up.
• Say what you need to say, and do so right now.
• Ask for forgiveness and offer it, no matter what.
• Offer hugs to those who really need it.
• Listen to your elders because you will learn so much.

4.  If you have a senior in your life … Spend a full day with them and ask them to share stories of your family history — fun stories, challenges, family secrets, marriages.  Look through old photos.  Record this day and make a book for them (and copies for each sibling) so it may be passed down for years to come.  Many children regret not having more family history, but they realize this only after a loved one has left us.

© 2011 Julie Hall