Venturing Outside “The Box”

There’s a place we all retreat to that is as comfortable as our favorite pair of old blue jeans.  We have a tendency to stay inside our box so we feel we are in a protected territory, comforted and safe from the world out there.  It is a place that, while not very adventurous, virtually assures us an existence of simplicity and familiarity; there is nothing wrong with that if it’s what we choose.

This was my year to go outside of my nice, comfy box and I knew it would take much self-talk to get it done.  Deep down, I love the idea of adventure, but end up being a weenie … kind of like the canary who dreams of being an eagle.  Numerous internal conversations between the many Julies that exist inside me said it was time to do things I had never done before … to go beyond my comfort zone.

I decided it was time for a little adventure.  Maybe it’s time to feel alive again.  Maybe it’s just a mid-life crisis.  Maybe it’s because I had a lovely, but very cautious upbringing and felt the need to break out of the mold just a little bit.  So here’s what I did:

I kayaked among Orcas in 1,200 feet of pristine water, admiring ancient forests from the ice age and bald eagles soaring overhead, as my paddles gently cut through the water.  Not a sound to be heard except me and nature.  Even seals popped up in curiosity.  I should have worn a diaper, but I was so awestruck, I didn’t even feel nervous.


Always afraid of heights, I encouraged myself to get on a tiny “bubble” helicopter and see glaciers and mountains from a different point of view.  Even though the pilot didn’t look old enough to drive, I really pushed myself to enjoy the adventure and it was exhilarating!  Truth be told, I was happy to have my feet on the ground again, but would have denied myself this beauty had I not gone high in the sky.  Here are some images of that flight.



Look at the gorgeous blue glacier lake on the white snow from 5,000 feet up.  It looks like Tide detergent on a white sheet!


I trekked the top of a glacier, hearing crunches and crackling of ice with every step I took.  Some steps looked as if I was walking on water as you could see running water under the clear icy surface.  They say some of these pockets are several hundred feet deep and I certainly didn’t want to end up in one of them.  But, how many times will I ever get to walk on a glacier?  That is what fueled my feet to go further.


To see a gathering of humpback whales working together to feed was an incredible and incomparable experience.  They say it is rare to see this, but we saw it several times.  I was lucky enough to catch a photo, with my husband holding onto me in the back of a rocky boat and me hanging over the edge to get the photo.  I was the only one to get it too, because I was willing to go over the edge, with a little help from hubby.  How awesome is this?


We ventured farther into Denali than most.  To see this vast, protected land with wild animals and ecosystems that work in sync with each other was really a sight to behold.  Thank God for the people who conserve such places.  Mt. McKinley (Denali) is breathtaking!


I did not go on the world’s biggest zip line.  OK, so I chickened out on that one, but I figured, “Why tempt fate with a dinky metal cable?”  No matter how much self-talk I engaged in, the answer was always “NO way!”

I am blessed!  Blessed that I was able to have these experiences, blessed with wonderful family and friends, blessed in many aspects.  Ultimately, the ability to go outside our comfort zone is a very personal decision.  All I kept asking myself during this trip was, “What if I hadn’t done these things?”  Look at what I would have missed!

So here I sit in the comfort of my office sharing this with you.  I can honestly say I didn’t miss riding the biggest zip line in the world.  Now that I can live with!

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Julie Hall, The Estate Lady®, is the foremost national expert on personal property in estates, including liquidating, advising, and appraising.  She is also the Director of American Society of Estate Liquidators®, the national educational and resource organization for estate liquidation.

2 thoughts on “Venturing Outside “The Box”

  1. Wow Julie glad you made it there….I too my life long dream trip to Alaska on my birthday last year, which is June 21 and always wanted to because of the midnight sun. It was the most amazing trip ever, did most of the same things you did, going further into Denali, saw all the wildlife, saw whales, walked on a glacier (we used a small plane that was flown by Sarah Palin’s neighbor) and it was the highlight of our trip. I loved every minute of it and felt like the trip of a lifetime. That state captured my heart and I want to go back. We even fished for salmon (and got a lot to send back home) in Juneau and it was warm and sunny with a backdrop of snow capped mountains…..gorgeous. I have tons of photos on my Facebook page, Hope to see more of yours! I am reliving it even now since it was one year ago we just returned. That is one amazing place……also, while my daughter and I were checking out the totem poles, the couple that was with us, long time friends and older than me, did the zip line and said it was great and not scary. 🙂

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