The Bird, My Teacher

Everyone needs to renew and restore their spirit every now and again, especially in such a hurried society.  Some people go away to the country or the beach where they find solitude and solace as a remedy for feeling overwhelmed and worn out.  It is a good thing to do so.  But do we really journey inside ourselves and heal what’s in there?  I’m willing to stick my neck out and say I don’t necessarily think so.

Today as I approached my car in the driveway, I saw a kooky little bird sitting on the driver’s side mirror, behaving in the strangest manner.  It was completely enamored with its reflection in the mirror.  Its little feet danced and it bobbed its head like crazy, joyous that it found an amiable friend … one that looks just like it!  It was so preoccupied with its reflection that it was not deterred by my presence only 3 feet away.  The next thing you know, the little bird side-stepped along the rim of the driver’s side mirror until he was completely upside down, flapping its wings and having a wonderful time looking at its new friend.


Don’t you wish we could greet ourselves each day in the mirror just like this?

Everything is relative.  The little bird does not have the advanced intellect to realize it was him in the reflection, yet he was a free spirit having the time of its life.  When we, the highest created intellect on earth, look in the mirror, we don’t see who we really are or even like the reflection we see.  We are too self-critical.  So many of us really don’t want to go there, but we need to, in order to restore ourselves and make peace with the person inside.

I’ve been pretty hard on myself lately.  The fat fairy keeps visiting me (the wench!), and middle age has settled in, not to mention all that comes with that fact.  When I saw that little bird who was so happy to see itself, I thought, “Why can’t we all be more like that?”

Nature has always been amazing to observe.  It teaches us lessons if we pay attention.  Because of that little bird, I will look at myself with more enthusiasm from now on.  How could you not smile when you witness something like that … a tiny creature with a Herculean spirit.  An important lesson for us all.

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8 thoughts on “The Bird, My Teacher

  1. Thanks for this perky little observation and reflection. I looked at myself in the mirror this morning and my stretch marks stuck out more than usual. Heck — I earned those!!!

    1. We all have our little “scars” as I call them. It just shows our bodies have been through a lot and we are warriors! 🙂

      ~ Julie

  2. Wow. I loved this little article. I have been going through the same thing. Not liking my reflection for a long time now. So, many issues of aging. I want to be happy again and not hate my reflection. Thanks I really needed this.

  3. I like the idea and the message, but the bird behavior is being mis-interpreted. The bird is actually threatened by the apparent intruder on its territory. I’ve seen them peck their reflections until they’re bloody trying to dispatch the apparent intruder. The kindest thing you can do is fold the mirror so they can’t see their reflection – and hope they don’t discover themselves in your chrome trim.

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